Couples Budget Envelopes: A Starter Set

Most couples' money fights are about the small, personal purchases, not the rent. This set funds shared bills and goals together, and gives each partner a personal envelope that's theirs to spend without justification.

Suggested envelopes with example monthly amounts. Adjust every number to your own income and costs.
EnvelopeExample / monthNotes
Housing $1900 Shared.
Utilities + internet $300 Shared.
Groceries $800 Shared.
Transportation $450 Shared: gas, insurance, maintenance.
Date night $200 Shared and protected.
Partner A personal $150 No questions asked.
Partner B personal $150 No questions asked.
Emergency fund $500 Shared goal.
Next big goal $400 Vacation, down payment, or debt payoff: pick one together.
Gifts (incl. each other) $75 Sinking fund.
Total$4925

Tips for this set

  • Keep personal envelopes equal, even if incomes aren't, unless you both agree otherwise.
  • A 15-minute weekly check-in beats a monthly argument.

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